Month: April 2014

Free-Styling With My Mother’s Mixed Seafood and Vegetable Paella

Paella, is one of my family’s traditional dishes. Today, I share with you my mother’s original recipe for a mixed paella, which is a free-style combination of seafood and vegetables. For all of you who like to entertain like me, this is a great summer dish.

 
The Paella originated in Valencia, Spain. However, with a grandmother who tout’s her ancestry from Galicea, and parents who constantly cultivate their love affair with the kingdom on the Iberian Peninsula, my Puerto Rican clan makes my mother cook this delicacy whenever she can.

 
Rice dishes are very popular in European and Latin American countries. My mom’s recipe includes Arborio rice, which is called for in a Risotto. So I want to take the opportunity to go over the differences between a Paella and Risotto.

 
• Paella is of Spanish origin, whereas Risotto is from Italy.

 
• Paella is dry at the top and soft on the inside; Risotto has a uniform texture from top to bottom and is creamier and sticky.

 
• Paella has a coat of crusty, cripsy rice at the bottom of the pan. For the Spanish this toasty carmelization is known as socarrat, but Puerto Ricans call it pegao and treasure it.

 
Like I mentioned earlier, we’ll be using Arborio rice, which is an Italian short grain, named after the town in Italy where it is grown. It’s easier to find then the more commonly Bomba, from Calasparra, Spain.

 
It is very important to prep in advance. Do all the chopping, weighing and measuring before the actual cooking. If you do this, your experience will be more enjoyable, stress free and relatively easy to do.

 
Paella is not fattening, provided you include it as part of a balanced diet. Keeping track of your caloric intake is pivotal when you are trying to avoid weight gain. Just watch your portions!

 
Mixed Seafood and Vegetable Paella (Paella Mixtas con Mariscos y Vegetales)
Makes 6-8 servings
Preparation time: 1 hour, 30 minutes

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3 Tablespoons fresh cilantro, chopped
8 garlic cloves, diced
1 Tablespoon fresh thyme
3 cups clam juice
2 teaspoons saffron threads
3 teaspoons sweet smoked paprika
6 Tablespoons extra virgin olive oil, divided
1 Spanish onion, diced
1 cup of dry white wine
2 cups Arboro rice
1 ½ pounds of cod (cut into bite-sized pieces)
2 ounces of fresh Asparagus spears
1 (15 oz) can of sweet peas
2 cups fresh calamari (cut into 1-inch pieces)
12 uncooked medium shrimp, peeled and deveined without tails
1 dozen clams
6 pieces of pimentos

 
If you have what Puerto Rican call a pilon (you may know it as a mortar and pestle), great; if not just use a bowl to grind up or mix cilantro, garlic and thyme to create a paste or mix.

 
Heat up clam juice in a sauce pan with saffron and paprika for about 10 to 15 minutes over a medium-low flame. You don’t want it to come to a boil.

 
Meanwhile in a 15-inch Paella pan, over a medium flame, brown fish in four Tablespoons of olive oil, for 1-2 minutes. Remove fish. Then add two tablespoons olive oil and onions to cook for five minutes.

 
Then add the cilantro, garlic, and thyme paste, followed by broth and wine to Paella pan. Mix together over a medium-high heat and bring to a boil. Add rice and spread evenly within the pan. Then add cod. Stir and lower to a medium flame. Add asparagus and cook for 10 minutes, until rice is no longer soupy but enough liquid remains to continue cooking the rice.

 
Add peas. Arrange calamari, shrimp, and clams over the rice, placing edges of the clam shells so they open facing up. You can also add more liquid if needed. Add pimentos. Cook for 10-20 more minutes, until you hear rice sizzling (this is a sign that you’re creating that coat of burnt rice on the bottom of the pan.)

 
Remove pan from the heat and cover with cloth. Sit for 10 minutes.

 
Making a good Paella is easy; making a great Paella takes practice and time!

 
Buen provecho!

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Time for My “Renewal” Weigh-In

Easter Weekend reminds me a bit of a Weight Watchers meeting. It’s a way to weigh-in on our “renewel.” This year I was blessed to spend the holiday with my family.IMG_5553

 
On Saturday, I, along with my parents, brother, and nephew, explored a part of the city devastated by Superstorm Sandy – New York’s financial district – Wall Street. In 2012, my brother’s downtown law firm offices, suffered dramatic infrastructural blows from the storm; however, they recently moved to 50 Wall Street. After we all helped him unpack his file boxes and settle in, we walked around and soaked in the area’s new vibrancy.

 
From Stone Street, to the Canyon of Heroes, to Trinity Church, I very much related to the area’s transformation. I was inspired by the waves of tourists from all over the world eager to connect with the city landmark. And having our tour lead by my brother was especially wonderful. He has also risen like a phoenix from the ashes and blossomed into a very successful attorney, investor, and father.

 

U (1)We devoured the most delicious pretzels ever at Bavaria Bierhaus. They were huge and fresh, and the mustard and beer cheese dipping sauces were addictive.

 

Serendipitously, we even ran into a West Point cadet. My father assisted her in finding an elevator, leading to the subway for her father, who was in a wheelchair. I took this a sign for my 14-year-old nephew whose dream is to study at the United State Military Academy. I believe life whispers to us with signs.

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Sunday, was full of delicious food. My family and I began the day at church and then returned to celebrate a Resurrection Brunch in the company of my cousin and his friend. We gathered around an assortment of fresh fruit, bagels, cream cheese and lox spread, fresh salmon, edamame hummus, apple cider, and of course café con leche. We even had a crispy Chinese barbecue pork pastry – this was a present from a new, very kind friend.

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The seven of us then all packed into our two cars and went to visit my grandmother at her nursing home. I’ve realized through my grandparents that one must take hold of every opportunity to connect with our loved ones – especially those who are in their last chapters of life. It was a gift to have my whole family there all at once with her. I was truly aware of my greatest blessing — my family.

 
Tears came to my eyes as I saw my mother’s eyes well up with appreciation, savoring the moment. Even through her challenges as my grandmother’s caretaker, my mother always expresses deep gratitude for this period in her life. She recognizes this period as one of her greatest blessings.

 
As usual, I had to add my own je ne sais quoi. So during a party for the residents, per the request of the keyboard performance artist, I performed my own interpretive dance entitled, The Electric Slide.

 

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Easter Weekend – the process of preparing for this period shines a light on how far we have come individually and collectively, leading to an overwhelming sense of gratitude. Check-ins, steps and markers of transformation and renewal – reasons to say thank you.

 
For dinner, we had my mother’s amazing Paella. I’ll share the recipe with you this week.

 
Buen provecho!

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Escape to Havana, Keeping Your Budget and Belt in Shape

In my twenties and early thirties, I used to go out and easily blow close to $100 or more on a meal. I had no qualms on busting my weekly budget. I felt as if I was entitled to spoil myself – I worked hard!

20140323_134030Now that I have transformed myself and my finances, I have to sing the praises of deal websites like Groupon. Recently, I spent $35 on a dinner-for-two package at a local hotspot — Havana Café. Located on East Tremont Avenue, in the Throggs Neck section of the Bronx, the restaurant specializes in Cuban cuisine.

My deal included sangrias for two, a shared appetizer, and two entrees. On this particular expedition, I decided to invite my mother to be my dining partner.

When you first step into Havana, the garlic aroma, not only welcomes you, but entices you. You can’t help but notice the mojitos, with their mint leaves, lining customer tables, and bounce your head to the booming Salsa music. At first slightly overwhelming, they set the mood for what’s to come. I immediately eyed the tables in front by the large windows, cascaded in the suns glow. I wanted to sit there and escape.  The waiters and waitresses at Havana are young, beautiful, and trendy. Because of the restaurant’s airy, island atmosphere – it feels like you’ve been transported to a place other than the Boogie Down, a semi-surreal fusion of New York and the Caribbean.

Our waitress started the meal by bringing out a freshly made roll, accented with black bean dip (a healthy alternative to butter or oil…and very Cuban). Although I don’t advocate engaging in white carbs, I took one small piece and savored the bread’s light buttery shell, opening up to its soft warmth. Now let’s get to the sangria. Draped in fruit, it comes in white or red. All I have to say about the wine, brandy, and triple sec blend…sabrosura!  If you like a nice cocktail, but you’re watching your weight, allow yourself one once a week.

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We then ordered the Calamares Cubano. The appetizer had a surprisingly Asian feel and was a nice segue. The breaded, fried squid covered with a honey glaze and sesame seeds, sat on top of a ravishing bed of cucumber. An unexpected flashback for my mother and me, reminding us of the delicious sesame chicken dinners she would bring home from our local Chinese food joint when I was a kid.

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As my entrée, I ordered the red snapper cooked in yuca mofongo. Mofongo is a garlic mash usually made with fried plantains, however this time it was made with cassava. My favorite! This mofongo looked like a little Christmas present, made just for me. You could see the green olives, and the red and green peppers just waiting to be grabbed by my fork. The amount of snapper incorporated into the dish was perfectly proportioned, so you appreciated every element of the mixture. A splendid spring salad, lightly dressed in a Cuban dressing made with mayonnaise, orange juice, lime and cilantro, balanced the plate out.

 

20140414_183757My mom had Horneado, which was a roasted half chicken, with sides of fingerling potatoes and Latino slaw. Admittedly, the chicken, traditionally cooked, was a bit too greasy for me. But the curveball on the plate was the potato. Roasted so they weren’t too soft, they appeared to be cooked with the chicken, taking on its cilantro seasoning. These fingerling potatoes were finger-licking delicious and easily the best part of the dish.

For a meal that would normally cost $66, I paid almost half that with my Groupon deal, priced at $35. This package had to be used on a Monday, Tuesday, or Wednesday night. But an added bonus is on Monday nights the restaurant has a comedy show starting at 9pm. Be prepared to pay taxes and gratuity on your Groupon deal, however it’s still a steal. Plus, the portions are huge!

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On that note, my healthy tip is enjoy your meal, but in small portions. I ate only a quarter of the plate. Taste, but don’t fill yourself to excess. Take home the rest; it’s dinner for tomorrow.

Also, consider ordering seafood – it’s always the safer bet. And fill up on the vegetables that come with your plate. They might end up being an unforeseen pleasantry.

Going out is fun – and you don’t have to break your budget or your belt!

Buen provecho!

You Don’t Know What You Don’t Know, Breaking Money Barriers

I work all night, I work all day, to pay the bills I have to pay
Ain’t it sad
And still there never seems to be a single penny left for me
That’s too bad
In my dreams I have a plan
If I got me a wealthy man
I wouldn’t have to work at all, I’d fool around and have a ball

ABBA, “Money, Money, Money”

I have had a bad relationship with money all my life. Even when I was making a lot of it, I didn’t save, and I squandered it easily. Although my parents were extremely hard workers and they instilled the same in me, we never spoke about wealth management. In their defense, you don’t know what you don’t know.

My financial health was in jeopardy for the better part of the first half of my adult life. Just the thought of taking care of money gave me extreme anxiety, and I evaded the conversation as much as I could.

Also, this discussion, like so many others, doesn’t happen as readily as it should in the Latino community. We believe in prosperity like anyone else, however we also revere humility. I love this about my culture and practice it, but also now know that both are not mutually exclusive.

I recently learned I am a savvy business woman and talented when it comes to creative ways of making money. At the age of 39, I have come to feel a sense of loss when thinking about how much time I wasted. I wish in my late teens or early twenties someone had sat me down and explained wealth management to me. I could have owned real estate by now and be on a set path for retirement if I had only thought about my finances – and myself – more seriously.

So thanks to my younger brother, since November I have been taking classes on wealth management. I have done so well in my program that I graduated at the top of one of my classes, winning a scholarship. I say this not to brag, but to encourage the many of you out there who have not started looking at retirement and savings.

Someone very close to me once told me I was not good with money. I believed this person and ended up at a standstill in my finances for five years. Since I decided to begin anew and change the course of my life, my positive attitude and openness has attracted economic opportunity and stability.

Quite simply, I am saying educate yourself and go for it! For all of you out there who don’t believe you will ever make money or have enough money to retire, you can and you will if you commit to it. Break down the barrier! I recently learned this from my parents who have become my biggest cheerleaders. They repeatedly tell me how talented I am in this new world. But I only really began to see the transformation once I believed it.

Banks and credit unions offer customers access to money management classes. There are also tons of free classes you can take out there. NYC Department of Consumer Affairs has classes on how to get out of debt, create a budget, and save for your future. Check it out here: http://www.nyc.gov/html/ofe/html/find/find.shtml

Don’t let fear hold you back. We all deserve financial stability and economic empowerment. Try to educate the young people around you as well. There is a good chance they won’t have Social Security when they need it; and God forbid we have another year like 2008 in the market, they need to know how to survive. We all deserve to thrive!

Remember, you don’t know what you don’t know. And you don’t want to figure it out at the age of 77 when your retirement runs out!

How have you started planning for the future? I’m sure my readers would love to know!

Love in the Time of Quinoa, Succulent Seafood Quinoa Risotto with Mushrooms

20140410_193724I am in love…with quinoa! I officially discovered it through this project. I was suspect, like many of you, because it was everywhere, and I thought it was just a fad. But I’ve succumb and truly believe it’s the world’s supergrain! The United Nations even declared 2013 “The International Year of Quinoa.” (Guess I’m a little late.)

The grain crop originated in the Andean region of Ecuador, Bolivia, Colombia and Peru thousands of years ago. Quinoa was a staple for the ancient Incas. They called it “the mother grain” and considered it to be their true gold because it increased the stamina of their warriors. More stamina is something I can definitely use!

I just love that it came from Latin America and that it has so many health benefits.  Drum roll, please!

  • It’s a complete proteincontaining all nine essential amino acids.
  • It has almost twice as much fiber as most other grainsRelieving constipation and helping to lose weight. Fiber also helps prevent heart disease, lower cholesterol and glucose levels, therefore reducing high blood pressure and diabetes.
  • Contains iron –Keeping our red blood cells healthy, carrying oxygen from one cell to another and supplying oxygen to our muscles. Iron increases brain function, aids in neurotransmitter synthesis, regulation of body temperature, enzyme activity and energy  metabolism.
  • Rich in magnesium – which is good for relieving migraines. It helps relax blood vessels and may even play a role in delaying Type 2 diabetes onset by improving insulin sensitivity.
  • Contains lysine – essential for tissue growth and repair.
  • And it’s gluten free!

Today’s recipe is a beautiful collaboration between my mother and myself.

Seafood Quinoa Risotto with Mushrooms (Marisco Risotto Quinua con Setas)

Makes 4 servings

Preparation time: 30 minutes

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1 cup quinoa, rinsed

2 Tablespoons extra virgin olive oil

1 garlic clove, finely chopped

1 ½ cups white onion, chopped

1 8-ounce package sliced mushrooms

3 teaspoons chopped fresh thyme

1 cup Moscato wine

1 pound uncooked medium shrimp, peeled and deveined

Grated Parmesan cheese (optional)

Place quinoa and 2 cups of water in a 1 ½ quart saucepan and bring to a boil. Cover. Reduce heat and let simmer until water is absorbed, about 13 minutes.

Meanwhile, heat oil in large pan over a medium-high flame. Add garlic and stir 30 seconds. Add onion, sauté for about 5 minutes, until begins to brown. Add your mushrooms and thyme, sauté for about 5 minutes, until mushrooms are tender. Add wine and shrimp. Stir and sauté for another 10 minutes.

Mix quinoa into mushroom and shrimp mixture. Cheese is optional; pass it separately.

Buen provecho!

 

 

Alzheimer’s Hits Women the Hardest

For the past several years my family has been dealing with my maternal grandmother’s illness — Alzheimer’s disease. It’s taken a toll on the whole family, but especially my mother, who is her primary caregiver. Not surprising is a new report from the Alzheimer’s Association showing women are hit the hardest.

“Women are the epicenter of Alzheimer’s disease, representing majority of both people with the disease and Alzheimer’s caregivers,” said Angela Geiger, chief strategy officer of the Alzheimer’s Association.

 
3.2 million women in the U.S. are living with Alzheimer’s disease. Women in their 60s are twice as likely to develop the disease over the rest of their lives as they are breast cancer. Average women outlive men and therefore their likelihood of getting the disease is greater.

Of the more than 15 million Americans caring for a loved one with Alzheimer’s or dementia, there are 2.5 times as many women than men providing intensive 24-hour care. Women who care for loved ones with Alzheimer’s have a higher emotional burden and are in their caregiving roles longer than the typical caregiver. Seventeen percent of women, compared to 2 percent of men, expressed feelings of isolation linked to depression.

 
These caregivers also suffer a burden at their jobs. 20 percent of women versus 3 percent of men went from working full-time to working part-time. And women were twice as likely as men to give up work entirely.

 
Alzheimer’s disease is the sixth leading cause of death in the United States, yet it is still widely misunderstood and underreported. There is a mistaken belief that Alzheimer’s must run in one’s family for them to be at risk. Twenty-five percent of both men and women, and 33 percent of Latinos, agreed with that incorrect statement, according to the Alzheimer’s Association.

 
My family has been rocked by this disease, but we have grown much stronger. I am so thankful for how much closer I have become to my grandmother and mother on this journey. I am so proud of my mother and her work. Both of these women have given me a desire to become even more of an advocate for Alzheimer’s disease and their caregivers. For more information on the disease, go to http://www.alz.org/.

 
Please think about joining the Alzheimer’s Association in their launch of a national initiative this spring highlighting the power of women in the fight against this disease. To join the movement, visit http://www.alz.org/mybrain.

 
My grandmother is now in a nursing home. We are blessed that she is close, receiving wonderful care. I wrote the below piece several years ago before I knew she had Alzheimer’s, but I knew something was changing. I would like to share it with you. Treasure every moment, you don’t know how long it will last.

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Grandma and mom Mother’s Day 2013

 

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Abuela. Rare bird. Grandma. Daisy. She rocks in her chair in the marquesina in Guayama, Puerto Rico. She says she has visions in glasses of water and winter wonderland globes, and speaks tongues.  She says God talks to her.  She tells me to be happy. Laugh! God likes it when I laugh. God likes it when I smile. He is smiling down on me right now.

She cries.  She says she doesn’t want to lose her husband.   They have been married for 64 years.  She remembers becoming an orphan. She says she looked like Shirley Temple when she was a girl. She remembers her mother dying of tuberculosis and her father from a fall. Her brother being institutionalized.  Moving from home to home.  No house.  She and her husband have had 13 houses, four children, 12 grandchildren, eight great grandchildren and one more is on the way.  He gave her everything. He was more than a husband. He became a father.

She laughs.  She sings “ If Jesus in the family, Happy Happy Home. Happy Happy Home. Happy Happy Home.”

She laughs.  I love God she says in her room stuffed with boxes, Christmas ornaments, plastic bags with shades of black and gray stockings, dresses the colors of papaya, mangoes, and Macintosh apples.  Eighty-three years of memories.   A bed that only has a corner free for her to sleep. In that cluttered room in an over-stuffed house in a cold New York suburb, she is never alone.

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